Sacrificing Perspectives

Okay, my darlings, this is fun. This is the recap call for our sacrificing perspectives week, and we’re going to try something crazy tonight.

I am going to live stream this to Facebook I have myself spotlight. You don’t have to worry about being on the camera or on Facebook, but with all of your consent, thank you for pre giving it, we’re going to try something new that makes me want to crawl out of my skin. here we go.

We’re going to go live on Facebook. I think we have to type a couple of things that’s true. Yeah, okay, here we go.

You ready? We’re gonna go live right here. Let’s see if it works.

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It could be already it is already happening. Okay, I’m going to close that down, because I think that that means, Hi, good evening, everyone. I am doing something new for the first time, and you are watching me in action.

I also realize people normally do this to their private Facebook pages and their Facebook groups, but I don’t. I don’t have those things right now, and my Facebook doesn’t talk to those things as easily as I would them to. you got me on my personal page.

It is what it is. Great to see you. Hello.

This is normally the recap call for the club of it’s called the creators club, in case you don’t know. And we meet every Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday morning, at 9am Pacific. And we do incredible things this month.

Happens to be us, us highly sensitive, creative driven, spiritually minded souls who typically want to bring new things into the world, whether it be families or businesses or creative projects or ideas or relationships. But we take a different angle each month, and this month we are taking the angle. The topic is miraculous messaging.

Some people call it marketing. If you’re in the business world. Some people have to get the communication to their kids, to their spouses, to their partners, it’s not magnetic, although that is one of the benefits.

We’re going straight miracles. And this month, the way we are describing miracles, what we are using on the human level of miracle, not the divine level, but the human level of miracle is a shift in perspective. A miracle is a shift in perspective.

my job as your coach is to give you opportunities to shift your perspective. And what we’re talking about this week is sacrifice, but not from the typical traditional either you right now has to sacrifice something you dearly love, or a baby lamb or a virgin or whatever we used to do with sacrifices. We’re not looking at it linear that.

We’re not going you now have to sacrifice something that the future you can then get something and be all happy and go off into the rainbow Daisy La La Land. , this week, we are doing it the opposite. I’m asking you to look at the future you, the you that already has or is, or is being, or is enjoying the bountiful harvest of becoming what you have become, whether that’s in six months or six years or when you’re 60, the future you is the one who’s doing the sacrificing, because the future you that is going to let go of a certain perspective think about something differently has no problem sacrificing the thing because they know the you in the future knows that’s what it took to become the next level of you.

we can call it sacrifice, but really it is a shift in perspective on purpose, possibly practice on purpose, that the you now, who is the beneficiary, beneficiary in the immediate right now of the sense of peace, of the sense of relief that comes over you when you are working in communication through this non linear the future, you knowing and getting in contact and using the fuel of emotion to help move you through those places, especially where you are stuck. we are applying it this month to our messaging, our marketing, our communication. this is the recap call.

And if you are interested in this, I want to invite you. I think I ate chocolate. I don’t see it in my teeth.

I want to invite you to come closer, come to the club, come into my Instagram world, come into a phone call with me, a text with me. I don’t care. We can do all of the things.

I want to invite you into these conversations, because they are miraculous and in the right hands, with the right intention, you can literally be creating miracles, not every day, but multiple times a day. here’s what we talked about this week, my darlings, we all want to put our best foot forward. We want to look good, we want to be good.

We want to do good. We want to leave the world a better place. I do.

You do are highly sensitive souls want to do good in this world, and one way of approaching communication and messaging and marketing is to do that. Go out and help be of service. Tell people you can help them, make them offers.

That is maybe not the traditional marketing, but that is one way to view your messaging, your marketing, whether your marketing your spouse to go on a vacation or your kids to eat healthier or go to bed earlier, or you’re bringing your business to the world. But there’s one error that if you are making, it could be costing you everything. if you are still with me.

Get out your journals. Get ready to type to me in the chat. Do what you do, because the more you speak into existence, not in order to perpetuate the problem, but the more you get, get eyes on the problem.

Take your brain out of your head with me and start looking at, oh, that’s how I’m connecting that, and that’s my relationship to that. That’s why I’m thinking of it this way. That’s where you can start to make changes.

today, this week, we are helping you with your messaging, your marketing, your business, building whatever that means for you and for many of you, it’s turning your creativity into cold, hard cash, turning your creativity into currency in exchange of energy, where then you get to do the vacations and buy the things that you that you want. right now, I want you to think of what are you working on? What’s in your heart?

What is something that’s coming up for you that if you could change it, maybe you’ve been working on it for a long time, maybe it’s something that you are now desiring go into the gym a little bit more, or deeply healing some health problems, or getting to have a little bit more fun on the weekends with your friends and buy the things you want, or getting out of some massive debt. What is it that you’re working on? And as we shift your perspective on sacrifice, from doing good, looking good, being kind, all of those things, we don’t have to sacrifice the things comfort and safety and your precious time.

You don’t have to sacrifice your comfort or your image or your happiness or your joy, or not even chocolate or wine. Because when you are out there communicating and trying to convince people and trying to get them to do things and inside your sacrificing on your own values, your messaging, your communication is always going to fall flat. That internal feeling is always going to be exhausting you and attracting more of what you don’t want, right?

is not about sacrificing the things that you love, I said, we’re done with the baby lambs and the virgins, and we’re not sacrificing the things that you truly love in life from now on, we’re only sacrificing perspectives that are not serving you. That’s it. You’re, you’re you’re from now on, if things are not going well and you are feeling icky and stuck, I want you to look inside and I want you to go, Well, what am I thinking?

What am i Believing right now that I might be willing, or need to be willing, to let go of to see it a different way. For example, I never want to go to bed. I’ve never wanted to go to bed since I was five.

I have always wanted to stay up later than I should, than I’m supposed to, than is healthy. As a kid, I would sneak out after I got put to bed, and I would be hiding crouched behind the couch, listening to Dallas and Falcon Crest stuff that I didn’t really care about. I do know I have those musical numbers memorized in my head, but I would sneak out to keep being part of the life that was still going at night, even now, even when my sweet husband is , It’s time, I’m tired, it’s time to go to bed, or I’m heading to bed.

You staying up? I have this ping of , Yeah, I’m staying up. I’m doing whatever I want, even though I have these goals of getting up early in the morning.

I love the morning. I have to remember that though, in the moment of saying I’m. Out of here.

I’m gonna go do my own thing. You go to bed. You all go be responsible.

I’m gonna go party in those moments, I have to remember that my relationship to going to bed early has shifted. My relationship to mornings has shifted, and I have to make myself think thoughts that are not usually available to me and practicing that becoming the next version of you. I know that’s a very simple example, but I wouldn’t be telling it if it hadn’t taken me decades to solve this problem.

we are doing that on many different levels right now. We’ve done that on value, feeling valuable as a human being, shifting perspectives this week, shifting our perspective on how we approach our own health, how we approach things. That’s what we’re doing this week.

there is one thing I’m going to be a little daring. It almost broke all of our brains, but we came up with it together. I’m going to try it on here with y’all.

I’m going to share as if we were out having a happy hour cocktail or out of coffee. Whatever you might be doing on a Thursday night, I’m going to share my whiteboard with you and tell me, if you can see, we’re going to pretend is a little napkin. This week, we took our little cocktail napkins, our coffee shop napkins, and we made a chart.

And at first in my mind, I thought the chart had only three columns. The column about what you want to change, the things that you’re wanting to up level on the the things you don’t right now, the exact changes, step by step, steps you want to take, the steps or the actions or whatever you want to be doing to make the change. And we made the chart include the things that you think you will have and how life will be when you’ve made all the changes.

But as we started our conversations, as we kept the conversations going, what emerged is that there needs to be some more columns in between here and this. These little in between columns happen to be everything and religious leaders and spiritual gurus and step by step programs and all of the high ticket coaching programs out there, this is what they’re trying to get at. Is what is in these columns.

This is one nerdy, geeky way of approaching the cosmos and all that ever is and was. But let’s say it’s your health. Let’s say it’s your bank account.

Let’s do two at once. Let’s say your health, and you want some more money, and you come up with all of these steps, , I’m gonna go to the gym and I’m gonna eat better, and I’m gonna get a buddy, and you have all these things. you got gym, you probably have a schedule that you’re gonna try to follow, and you’ve got what other I say, you’re going to eat better, your diet, your food, and you’re going to get a friend, a buddy, to accountability, all of these things, right?

And with money, you’re going to get out there, you’re going to do some ads, you’re going to make some flyers, you’re going to talk to the people. You’re going to go to an event, you’re going to meet some people, you probably have a list of things that you could make, right? And then if you fast forward and you think of the future, you that’s , Okay, once I’ve been going to the gym and once I’ve been eating healthy, I’m going to look great and I’m going to feel great, and I’m going to have a new partner that’s going to also be looking great and feeling great, I’m gonna you’ll have all these results that will make you become or you will have become the person that you wanted to be.

And if you run all the ads and you tweak them, and you you figure out how to make them work, then you’re gonna have some money rolling in and some new clients, and you’re gonna have some new friends, and you’re gonna have some new contacts. And you can picture this life where everything is working out right. we ran through these.

These are, this is a very fast basic example, but, but to slow yourself down and to then answer here, what is your relationship right now, to health, to your health. What is your relationship, your emotions, your thoughts, everything right now, to your current bank account, or to money itself. And usually, what we found with this week’s coaching club, there was a lot of , I feel crap.

I don’t think I’m going to be able to do it, even when I do a little bit of things, I think I’m still a failure. I should have started long ago, or there’s something wrong with me that I haven’t made as much as I want to, or I’m never going to figure this out. It was usually a pretty negative experience.

The emotions there were really down and draining, and that makes sense. Wow. That third we want to change these things for a reason.

Someone even was , but I’m not that bummed. I want to go to the gym a little bit more, and I’m very excited about that. it’s not that they’re all bad.

Some are , Okay, I’m ready. Let’s go. But we looked at your relationship to that, and as you can imagine, same thing here.

What is your relationship, your thoughts and your feelings about going to the gym? Is it? Well, I’m a little nervous.

I don’t really know anybody there, or I don’t even know if I’m gonna wear I’ve been uncomfortable before. What knowing what your relationship is to the steps that you’ve outlined for yourself. Maybe they’re of excitement, maybe eating better.

You’re , I’ve done it before, and I feel really fortified. I’m going to do that again. But being clear that you’ll probably have a mix here of excitement and a little bit of panic and a little bit of dread, and maybe your friend backs out on you, and then you’re , Oh, now I’ve got a little bit of anger.

You got, there’s all these different relationship emotions to the steps you’re taking, same thing with money, same thing with anything. And here is the kicker, the relationship you have, oftentimes, to the future version, when you have attained all the things and you are reaping the bountiful harvest of the sacrifices you have made. In our mind’s eye there, it’s usually this land of plenty.

I’m happy with myself. Everything’s going well, and it’s very challenging to remind ourselves here, not to bring ourselves down, but to be full and whole and honest about we will also have challenges that came up here, and new things will have also presented themselves. We will have both emotions of, yes, I made it.

I’m amazing, but we will have worked through this. We will have solved many problems that we have become a person, a version of ourselves that now understands the wholeness, the yin and the yang, the black and the white, the up and the down, that it could be no other way. It’s not that we don’t have any problems in the future.

It’s that our perspective as we became fortified and became the person that we were going to become, thanks to all of this changed us. That’s where the transformation is, that we become unstoppable, not because we’re only happy, but because we learned how to overcome and deal with and hold and be with ourselves around all the challenges too. if you didn’t make it this week.

That’s what I have for you. That’s what we talked about. And as always, after, we learned and inspired and educated with each other, then we moved into the coaching conversations, which is where the fire is.

It’s where everybody is bringing their own topics, and we’re watching people move through the transformation together. It’s amazing. It’s the greatest honor of my life, and I hope to see you there.

if I didn’t invite you already, I invite you now, come closer. Come talk to me, or hang out with me here and tell me your thoughts. Now, let’s see if I know how to stop the live stream.

Have a great evening. You.
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